There Will Be No White Flag Upon My Door
Well. I feel like a bit of an explanation is owed for my absence. I feel terribly that I haven’t posted in ages on either of my blogs. I have a back log of stuff to post about and I still have a lot of desire to see this project to fruition. However, I am having to take a step back for the moment from my blogging.
Several reasons:
a) Major major MAJOR life changes happening for me. Most of them exciting. But the distraction has been immense as I process all that’s going on and deal with things in Real Time.
b) Severe privacy issues. In the aftermath of some devastating events in my personal life, it’s come to my attention that having an online presence is at odds with my need to have a life that is free of inappropriate spectating. I am well aware that having a public blog means giving up certain privacy. Most of which I’d ordinarily be fine with. But such as things are, a few people are ruining it for the many. And that, my friends? Blows. Believe me when I say that self-censoring is completely at odds with everything I stand for. But that should also give you some perspective as to the seriousness of the situation.
So what does this mean exactly? Well I’m not sure. I’m taking some more time to figure out what I need to do in order to continue my writing and overall having fun with life, without providing ammunition for prying eyes. This may mean I simply take some time off. It may mean I cease to blog completely (let’s not get too dramatic though, shall we?) OR door #3… re-establish blogging elsewhere at an undisclosed location and begin anew. Unfortunately the latter option means potentially losing some of my legitimate readers and friends.
For now, rest assured that I have not forgotten about you guys. I am not surrendered. Nor have I lapsed in my commitment to wearing pretty dresses. Or doing cool shit. Or listening to amazing music and watching great flicks and cramming classic literature into my already full life.
Whatever happens, thank you to my loyal friends and may we reconvene when the time is right. Much Love.
-Jenny
I repeat my Pretty Dresses comment here. Hugs.
What a darg. You are definitely missed around these parts. Hope everything pans out for the best.
Oh Jenny, I know you are going through some weird/tough shit, but I also know you have you have a very exciting thing happening in your life. You need to be proud of yourself and so happy. I think this is just what you needed right now! Good luck with it all. I truly hope the blogging doesn’t have to stop, but I do understand if that’s what you must choose.
oh wow I guess I never realize the whole privacy issue….Good Luck!
I appreciate the explanation…and I hope I can find you should you reappear elsewhere.
Boooo!!!! This sounds no good. I hope all is well and that someday you can share your exciting news with everyone!
Life comes first. I’ve certainly missed your posts, your wit, and your pretty dresses, but c’est la vie. Take care and good luck with the decisions!
Perhaps you could make the blog(s) by “invitation only”. Then you get to decide who sees them. Starting with us (your regular readers) of course!
Best of luck – we miss you.
– Tessa the lurker
Oiy I hate that discus on the other blog. (giggles)